You spent a long time getting your shared parenting plan hammered out so that both you and your ex were satisfied with it.
Or maybe you had a protracted custody battle that ended in the court making the parenting decision for you.
Either way, there is often some point in their lives that a child may start to resent the visitation schedule and refuse to see the other parent.
What can you do in this situation?
Are you supposed to make your child go or should you give in?
What are the possible legal consequences?
And can older children decide on their own whether or not they want to visit the non-custodial parent?
In this article, we will discuss common problems that happen in shared parenting, the possible legal ramifications and some things you can do to make the transition easier on your child.
A CNN Money article reported that as of 2009, over $100 billion was owed in unpaid child support payments. For lower-income mothers receiving child support, the child support payments accounted for almost one-half of their total income.
When payments are not made by the other parent, mothers have no choice but to seek public assistance for themselves and their children. The problem has continued to grow as more parents never marry, separate or divorce and the need for child support increases.
Delaware Juvenile Court makes forms available for domestic relations cases.
These custody, support and visitation cases take place when the parties are not married. If the parties are married the parties must go to Common Pleas Court Domestic Relations to deal with custody, support and visitation issues.
Do you need more child support? Do you suspect that your spouse may be hiding money from you? Can you increase your child support?
Jack is an Ohio family law attorney. In this video, he explains how to use a subpoena to increase child support payments.
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Many divorce cases involve children. If you are getting a divorce and have children, you should know what local rule visitation is. Ohio Family Law Attorney Jack Carney-DeBord defines local rule visitation in this short video.
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According to the Pew Research Center, in 2013, four out of ten new marriages included one partner who had been married before, and two out of every ten new marriages were between people who had both been previously married. In many of these marriages, children from previous relationships are involved.
Creating a blended family means everyone’s roles shift. It may take time for one family to get used to living with another one, even if they all got along before.
Parents have a responsibility to support their children. Obtaining child support is important for many reasons, which is why the Child Support Enforcement Agency was created. Although this agency was established by the federal government, each state is required to have its separate unit to administer a child support program.
Early September is symbolic of many things including the close of the summer season and, of course, kids going back to school. I bet you’ve seen the iconic school buses (or maybe even been stuck behind them).
You probably braved the back-to-school sales to stock up on supplies, new clothes, and all else that comes with the start of a new school year. That is the fun part. But what about the tough parts that you may remember as a child…
January is the time to make resolutions for the New Year. But as anyone with a health club membership can tell you, most people give up these resolutions by mid-February.
When it comes to your children, however, it’s important to resolutions that last. Newly divorced parents can and should learn from the mistakes of others.
The resolutions below will help you avoid these mistakes and create situations that will help instead of hurt your children.
One Size Doesn't Fit All
Child custody cases can be the most difficult ones in Family Law court. The “best interests” standard comes before the courts in all sorts of ways. these include divorce, dissolution, legal separation, juvenile custody, post-decree modifications, and step-parent adoptions to name a few.
Emotions are sky-high, battle lines are drawn and there is no holding back.
Child custody decisions are some of the hardest ones parents will ever make. They are also among the most important.
Even the experts have trouble agreeing, but the divorce rate for first marriages is believed to be between 36% and 42%.
As a Family Law Attorney, I see families at all of the different stages of the divorce process. Ending an unsatisfactory relationship isn’t necessarily a bad thing, but there is denying that it affects every family member.
During the divorce, parents must act responsibly—make children feel involved in key decisions throughout the process and not expose children to adult disagreements. Uncertainty about the future and being exposed to the constant conflict are what’s most damaging for children, not the fact of divorce itself.
The Changing Role of Grandparents in America
The proportion of children living in “grandfamilies” has doubled in the U.S. since 1970. The role of grandparents has changed in the past few decades as more and more grandparents are raising their grandchildren.
Even for grandparents who are not raising their children, the role of grandparents has expanded as grandparents are living longer and are a larger part of their grandchildren’s lives. Arthur Kornhaber, M.D, president and founder of the Foundation for Grandparenting, has identified 11 roles grandparents play in the lives of their grandchildren.
Shared Parenting in Ohio
Child custody and visitation are two of the most difficult issues in a divorce proceeding. While the parents appear to be the focus of a custody battle because they are the parties that are being heard, the real focus in any custody battle is the child.
As with most states, Ohio courts focus on what is in the best interest of the child when deciding custody disputes. A child who is caught in the middle of a nasty custody battle is heartbreaking for all parties but especially for the child.
Therefore, Ohio laws are written to protect the child's best interest first and foremost. In most situations, it is in the best interest of the child to have both parents play an active role in the child's upbringing. When both parties enjoy the rewards and responsibilities of being a parent, it benefits the child.
To that end, Ohio custody laws encourage parents to work together to formulate a custody arrangement that benefits everyone in the family.
You have financial and legal responsibilities to your child. It doesn't matter if you and the other parent are married.
This will remain true until the child is an adult, which is when he or she reaches age 18 in the United States.
Even if a parent does not want any parental rights he or she will still have responsibilities. A parent must make sure the child’s basic needs are being met.
Child support ensures the child has food, water, clothing, shelter, and so forth. If a married couple gets divorced, the goal is for the child's standard of living to stay the same. Or at least as close as possible to the same.
In Ohio, how child support is being calculated is changing based on new data. The Ohio Department of Job and Family Services is making updates to its child support laws for the first time since 1992.
These updates will go into effect in March of 2019. Learn more about these laws and how you’ll be affected.
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