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Grandparent Rights in Ohio

The Changing Role of Grandparents in America

In America, approximately 5.8 million children live in homes where the grandparents are the homeowner. More than 2.5 million grandparents take the role of caregiver for these children. One million children live in a home with grandparents where no parent is present. The role of grandparents has changed in the past few decades as more and more grandparents are raising their grandchildren.


Even for grandparents who are not raising their children, the role of grandparents has expanded as grandparents are living longer and are a larger part of their grandchildren’s lives. According to Arthur Kornhaber, M.D., president and founder of the Foundation for Grandparenting, has identified 11 roles grandparents play in the lives of their grandchildren.

  • Ancestor – A grandparent is the head of the family and the link to family history.
  • Buddy – Because a grandparent does not have to deal with the day-to-day discipline issues, grandchildren often have a more comfortable, friendly relationship with a grandparent encouraging the child to discuss and share sensitive issues with the grandparent.
  • Hero – A grandparent can take the role of hero in several ways but most importantly, it gives the child someone to look up to and model his or her life after.
  • Historian – Grandparents represent a living witness to the family’s history.
  • Mentor – A grandparent teaches important life lessons but he or she also is a cheerleader to encourage the child and give the child a sense of self-worth.
  • Nurturer – This role goes beyond what a parent can provide by giving the child an “emotional and social safety net” to make the child feel secure and safe.
  • Role Model – By his or her actions, a grandparent can have a positive influence on the child.
  • Spiritual Guide – Grandparents teach children about love, compassion, joy, peace, faith, kindness, tolerance, and reverence.
  • Student – Grandparents also learn from their grandchild.
  • Teacher – Grandparents have many years of experience and knowledge they can impart to their grandchildren that can never be learned from a book.
  • Wizard – Imaginative play is important for young children as they develop their verbal and intellectual skills.

grandparents with grandchildrenIn addition to the various roles that grandparents play in the lives of their grandchildren, it has been shown that children who have their grandparents play an integral role in their lives enjoy various health boosts. Some grandparents provide a safe and stable home when parents must work. They provide constant and stable care for the child. Grandparents also provide help children deal with adversity by providing a constant, loving, and steady shoulder to lean on during times of trouble. Grandparents provide unequivocal love and affection, which is extremely important to a child’s self-esteem.

In addition to the health benefits, researchers from Boston College found mental health benefits associated with a strong relationship between grandchildren and grandparents. The relationship benefits children as they become adults and continue a close relationship with their grandparents. The results of the study indicate, “We found that an emotionally close grandparent-adult grandchild relationship was associated with fewer symptoms of depression for both generations. The greater emotional support grandparents and adult grandchildren received from one another, the better their psychological health."

What are Grandparent Rights?

Grandparent rights have been the subject of debate for decades. At the center of the debate is a parent’s unconditional right to choose who will and will not be involved in the child’s life versus a grandparent and a child’s right to have a close relationship. Grandparent rights is the legal concept that courts can order parents to allow their children to spend time with their grandparents.

At this time, all 50 states have some type of grandparent rights laws; however, there is great disparity between the laws of each state. The American Bar Association has a chart detailing the third-party visitation criteria for all 50 states. Several state courts and the United States Supreme Court have ruled on this subject. Ohio is one of the few states that have taken a very strong stance on grandparent rights.

What are Courts Saying about Grandparent Rights?

In a Washington State case, a mother opposed her in-laws receiving expanded visitation with their grandchildren after her husband passed away. The grandparents petitioned the court under Washington Rev. Code §26.10.160(3) that stated any person can petition for visitation rights at any time and the state superior courts may grant such visitation if it is in the child’s best interest. A Washington State Superior Court granted the grandparents petition and ordered expanded visitation. The mother appealed the decision to the Washington State Court of Appeals. The State Court of Appeals overturned the Superior Court decision and the Washington State Supreme Court affirmed.

gavel and scalesIn its opinion, the Washington State Supreme Court held that the code section “unconstitutionally infringes on parents’ fundamental right to rear their children.” The case of Troxel v. Granville, 530 U.S. 57 (2000), was appealed to the United States Supreme Court. The US Supreme Court upheld the decision of the Washington Supreme Court stating in part that the Washington State statute violated the mother’s “due process right to make decisions concerning the care, custody, and control of her daughters.” Troxel v. Granville was a powerful blow to grandparent rights throughout the United States; however, not all states have adopted the opinions in Troxel v. Granville.

In a more recent case, E.R.G. v E.H.G. (11-311), the US Supreme Court denied to hear a grandparent rights case from Alabama. The parents of two children denied visitation with the grandparents after a business dispute caused a falling out between the parents and the grandparents. Up until that time, the grandparents had a close, loving relationship with their grandchildren. The grandparents petitioned the court under Alabama’s Grandparent Visitation Act. A trial court sided with the grandparents and ordered regular visitation with the grandchildren. The parents appealed and the trial court was reversed. The case then proceeded to the Alabama Supreme Court. The Alabama Supreme Court ruled in favor of the parents and further ruled that the Alabama Grandparent Visitation Act was a violation of the parents’ due process rights.

The Alabama case represents a division among states on grandparent rights. At this time, 18 states require that the grandparents prove the parents are unfit or by removing the grandparents from the child’s life it will cause harm to the child. Other states begin with a presumption in favor of the parents and require that the grandparents prove that visitation with the child is in the child’s best interest.

How Does Ohio Law View Grandparent Rights?

The Ohio Supreme Court has ruled that the Troxel decision does not apply to grandparent rights in Ohio. In Harrold v. Collier, 107 Ohio St.3d 44 (2005), the court found that Troxel did not require “overwhelmingly clear circumstances” to support a grandparents right to visitation. The US Supreme Court had declined to define “the precise scope of the parental due process right in the visitation context.” Therefore, the Ohio Supreme Court ruled that Ohio’s nonparental-visitation statutes were constitutional in the present case based on the circumstances and the facts of the case clearly warranted granting the grandparents visitation with their grandchild.

Harrold set a precedence for Ohio courts to allow grandparent rights of visitation if the circumstances and the facts of the case demonstrate that visitation with the grandparents is in the child’s best interest weighed against the parent’s due-process rights. While grandparent rights are recognized in Ohio, the statutes governing a grandparent’s right to visitation and custody are complex. It is imperative that grandparents seek the advice and counsel of an attorney who has extensive experience handling Ohio grandparent rights cases.

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When Does Ohio Grant Grandparent Rights for Visitation?

Ohio grandparent rights for visitation are permitted by statute in three situations:

  • When the parents of the child are married and decide to end the marriage or the parents decide to separate;
  • When one of the parents of the child is deceased; and,
  • When the child is born to an unmarried woman.

However, the court must find that visitation with the grandparents is in the best interest of the child. The “best interest of the child” is the overriding principle in all custody and visitation cases including Ohio grandparent rights cases. In order to determine if visitation with the grandparents is in the best interest of the child, the court must consider the following statutory factors:

  • The concerns and/or wishes of the parents;
  • The child's prior interactions and interrelationships with the parents, grandparents, and other relatives;
  • The location of the grandparent's residence and the distance between it and the child’s residence;
  • The time which the child and parents have available taking into consideration schedules for employment, school, holidays, and vacations;
  • The child's age;
  • The child's adjustment at home, school, and in the community;
  • The child’s wishes as expressed to the court if the court interviews the child;
  • The child's health and safety;
  • The availability of time for the child to be with his or her siblings;
  • The mental and physical health of all parties concerned;
  • The willingness of the grandparent to reschedule missed visitation;
  • Any conviction of the grandparent or guilty plea by the grandparent involving a crime of child abuse or child neglect; and,
  • Any other factor that the court may consider to determine the best interest of the child.

If the court denies the grandparent’s motion for visitation, the grandparent has the right to appeal this decision. This is another reason for grandparents to hire an experienced Ohio grandparent rights attorney who not only tries these types of cases but also has experience in the appeals process.

Ohio Grandparent Rights for Custody

grandparent babyIn addition to allowing grandparent rights in Ohio for visitation, Ohio law also permits grandparents to sue for custody of their grandchild in certain situations. In order to win custody of their grandchildren, a grandparent must prove that both parents are unfit and that it is in the best interest of the child that the grandparents be given custody of the child.

As in other custody cases that involve unfit parents, Children’s Services is often involved in grandparent rights cases involving custody. It is important to retain an attorney experienced in dealing with cases involving removing a child from an unfit home who understands the process used by Children’s Services. If a grandparent believes a child is in danger or the parents are unfit, he or she needs to contact an attorney as soon as possible to file a motion with the court for custody.

What if the Parents Refuse to Allow Court Ordered Visitation?

If the court grants visitation under Ohio grandparent rights statutes, the parents must obey with the order. When parents fail to comply with court-ordered visitation or interfere with visitation, the grandparent can file a motion for contempt seeking an order compelling the parents to comply with the visitation order. Parents who are found guilty of contempt can be ordered to pay a fine and/or sentenced to jail time. The parents may also be ordered to pay court fees and attorney’s fees for the contempt action.

What Do Grandparents Need To Consider Before Petitioning To Exercise Their Grandparent Rights?

Before grandparents decide to exercise their grandparent rights by petitioning the court for custody or visitation, they should consider several serious consequences. For example, what are the long-term consequences of your decision to involve the court? This could damage your relationship with your own child. If you do win custody, are you prepared physically, emotionally, and financially to care for your grandchildren.

Are you prepared to do whatever it takes to win your case? You may be required to testify about sensitive matters regarding your own child including drug abuse, physical abuse, or mental illness. You must be prepared to use whatever tactical advantage you have in order to convince the court to grant your petition. In the event of abuse or neglect, are you willing to contact the authorities knowing that your child could be prosecuted?

If you ultimately decide to proceed with a motion or petition for visitation, be prepared to discuss specific details related to:

  • Concerns regarding the children’s safety
  • The role you have played in caring for your grandchildren
  • Your relationship with your grandchildren versus the relationship of the parents with their children
  • The parent’s weaknesses and strengths versus your weaknesses and strengths
  • The extent you have assumed parenting functions for your grandchildren

The first step a grandparent should take is to contact an experienced Ohio grandparent rights attorney to discuss legal options for obtaining visitation or custody. Grandparent rights, even in Ohio, is still a complex legal issues that requires an experienced attorney to handle.

 

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Comments 5

 
Guest - Janet Ebright on Wednesday, 09 September 2015 14:45

I was told by a lawyer that grandparents had no vistation rights is this true. I live in Ohio

I was told by a lawyer that grandparents had no vistation rights is this true. I live in Ohio
Guest - Jack Carney-DeBord on Thursday, 10 September 2015 18:53

No it is not true. Great question. I checked updated law in Ohio to show you: I have copied a section from a real case in 2014. If you have any other questions do not hesitate to call and ask for a phone appt. 740 369-7567. I appreciate the inquiry. Jack

[b]R.C. 3109.051(B) provides that a trial court may grant reasonable visitation rights to grandparents if the court determines that such visitation is in the child's best interests. The trial court has discretion as to visitation issues, and its decision will not be reversed absent an abuse of discretion, such that the decision is unreasonable, arbitrary or unconscionable. In re S.K.G., 12th Dist. Clermont No. CA2008-11-105, 2009-Ohio-4673, ¶ 21. When determining whether to grant visitation rights to a grandparent, the trial court is required to consider the 16 factors listed in R.C. 3109.051(D).[/b]

No it is not true. Great question. I checked updated law in Ohio to show you: I have copied a section from a real case in 2014. If you have any other questions do not hesitate to call and ask for a phone appt. 740 369-7567. I appreciate the inquiry. Jack [b][b]R.C. 3109.051(B) provides that a trial court may grant reasonable visitation rights to grandparents if the court determines that such visitation is in the child's best interests. The trial court has discretion as to visitation issues, and its decision will not be reversed absent an abuse of discretion, such that the decision is unreasonable, arbitrary or unconscionable. In re S.K.G., 12th Dist. Clermont No. CA2008-11-105, 2009-Ohio-4673, ¶ 21. When determining whether to grant visitation rights to a grandparent, the trial court is required to consider the 16 factors listed in R.C. 3109.051(D).[/b][/b]
Jack on Saturday, 21 May 2016 14:23
What am I up against timewise and financially...

My daughter has cut me off from seeing my grandson for over a year now. It is not the first time she's done this. The last time was for about 8 months. I do my best to give her a cooling off period but this time seems no end in sight. She has no reason to have cut me off other than her own "mental illness" that she will not accept. I've done nothing to her or my grandson to warrant this harsh punishment other than not supporting her newest relationship due to the fact that he was a heroine addict and did bring the drugs right in my grandson's home and od'd there. She had to call 911 and there is a police report. She sent him away for treatment twice. Both times he continued to use. He also has external affairs with other men that she has accepted and she admits she doesn't like it but he allows her to have affairs as well as long as they keep it outside of their personal life (home). This was all spelled out on Facebook as she tends to post her life there. Just giving you some background as to why I had a problem accepting this person in her and my grandson's life although I did try.
Now my grandson is 9 years old. I've recently learned (through her Facebook) that he is stealing and getting into some serious trouble. This is not like him at all. He has been cut off from his entire family and friend not just me. I have a large family who are very close of 13 siblings and over 150 nephews and nieces. My grandson does not get to see any of them.
She was unmarried at the time of his birth and the birth father is not in his life. She got with another man when grandson was only one month old up until about October 2014. He called this man dad and he was dad in every sense of the word. He did everything for my grandson. My daughter finally ended her relationship with this man after meeting someone on a dating sight. She abruptly kicked him and replaced him with this other man. He immediately was not allowed to call the only dad he ever knew "dad" anymore and had to start calling this other stranger dad. Just a few short weeks later they are moving 2 1/2 hours away from everyone to start a new life together. It wasn't until after this that it was found out about the drug addiction. He and she both are RN's. He has since been fired from his employer not sure if he still has his license or not. I am so very afraid for my grandson. He and I were very close and we had a good, stable, loving relationship. I NEVER talked bad about his mother to him. After all, she was my daughter as well. Since this new person knew I didn't care for him (although I was always civil to him) she up and cut me off from a relationship with either of them. There was nothing done to provoke this. Nothing.
My daughter suffers from mental illness. She sometimes gets treatment and then stops for various reasons. She is very intelligent and savvy. She can fool a lot of people...for awhile. She is the ultimate control freak. From the time she was in high school, she could only have one friend at a time. I didn't think much about this at the time but as she grew into adulthood I can see now it was a pattern. She hyper-focuses on one main person in her life at a time. It's always been about control. I need to know whether I have a chance to at least get grandparents visitation rights. My grandson needs to know that people do care about him and what he is going through. He is so sad and miserable. This is why he is acting out.

My daughter has cut me off from seeing my grandson for over a year now. It is not the first time she's done this. The last time was for about 8 months. I do my best to give her a cooling off period but this time seems no end in sight. She has no reason to have cut me off other than her own "mental illness" that she will not accept. I've done nothing to her or my grandson to warrant this harsh punishment other than not supporting her newest relationship due to the fact that he was a heroine addict and did bring the drugs right in my grandson's home and od'd there. She had to call 911 and there is a police report. She sent him away for treatment twice. Both times he continued to use. He also has external affairs with other men that she has accepted and she admits she doesn't like it but he allows her to have affairs as well as long as they keep it outside of their personal life (home). This was all spelled out on Facebook as she tends to post her life there. Just giving you some background as to why I had a problem accepting this person in her and my grandson's life although I did try. Now my grandson is 9 years old. I've recently learned (through her Facebook) that he is stealing and getting into some serious trouble. This is not like him at all. He has been cut off from his entire family and friend not just me. I have a large family who are very close of 13 siblings and over 150 nephews and nieces. My grandson does not get to see any of them. She was unmarried at the time of his birth and the birth father is not in his life. She got with another man when grandson was only one month old up until about October 2014. He called this man dad and he was dad in every sense of the word. He did everything for my grandson. My daughter finally ended her relationship with this man after meeting someone on a dating sight. She abruptly kicked him and replaced him with this other man. He immediately was not allowed to call the only dad he ever knew "dad" anymore and had to start calling this other stranger dad. Just a few short weeks later they are moving 2 1/2 hours away from everyone to start a new life together. It wasn't until after this that it was found out about the drug addiction. He and she both are RN's. He has since been fired from his employer not sure if he still has his license or not. I am so very afraid for my grandson. He and I were very close and we had a good, stable, loving relationship. I NEVER talked bad about his mother to him. After all, she was my daughter as well. Since this new person knew I didn't care for him (although I was always civil to him) she up and cut me off from a relationship with either of them. There was nothing done to provoke this. Nothing. My daughter suffers from mental illness. She sometimes gets treatment and then stops for various reasons. She is very intelligent and savvy. She can fool a lot of people...for awhile. She is the ultimate control freak. From the time she was in high school, she could only have one friend at a time. I didn't think much about this at the time but as she grew into adulthood I can see now it was a pattern. She hyper-focuses on one main person in her life at a time. It's always been about control. I need to know whether I have a chance to at least get grandparents visitation rights. My grandson needs to know that people do care about him and what he is going through. He is so sad and miserable. This is why he is acting out.
Guest - tracy smith on Sunday, 10 July 2016 08:21
Case closed

I filed a case back 2008 against my unmarried daughter. The case was dismissed in 2009 because I was getting to see my grandchild. I was told to file complaint under O.C.R 3109.12 in general divsion if things fell apart. Well my daughter got married this year February 17th to a guy who is not the biological father of my grandchildren. He tells me I cannot see my grandchildren so how do I file the complaint under OCR 3109. 12. I have several documentation from the sheriff's department and the local city police from my daughter and him where they have been fighting he has threatened her life threatened to kill the father of my grandson's life. The last altercation I called the sheriff to press charges on him because he was threatening me and front of my grandson who is 3 years old. What would be my best options in this matter

I filed a case back 2008 against my unmarried daughter. The case was dismissed in 2009 because I was getting to see my grandchild. I was told to file complaint under O.C.R 3109.12 in general divsion if things fell apart. Well my daughter got married this year February 17th to a guy who is not the biological father of my grandchildren. He tells me I cannot see my grandchildren so how do I file the complaint under OCR 3109. 12. I have several documentation from the sheriff's department and the local city police from my daughter and him where they have been fighting he has threatened her life threatened to kill the father of my grandson's life. The last altercation I called the sheriff to press charges on him because he was threatening me and front of my grandson who is 3 years old. What would be my best options in this matter
Guest - Mary Ann Kokenge on Wednesday, 24 August 2016 12:01
Grandparent with legal custody - also guardian??

I was awarded Legal Custody of my granddaughter two years ago. Since then, i filled out countless forms for school, doctors, daycare, etc. where i have checked off that i was the guardian. Only choice other than parent. Recently i went to my county probate court to change my granddaughter's last name to her Mom's family name. (She was given the baby daddy name, but he has had no role in her life.) The probate court would not let me apply, stating that i am not her legal guardian.

I was awarded Legal Custody of my granddaughter two years ago. Since then, i filled out countless forms for school, doctors, daycare, etc. where i have checked off that i was the guardian. Only choice other than parent. Recently i went to my county probate court to change my granddaughter's last name to her Mom's family name. (She was given the baby daddy name, but he has had no role in her life.) The probate court would not let me apply, stating that i am not her legal guardian.
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